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2010 is going to be a year of simplicity, breakthrough and renewal. I started this blog in an effort to keep our awesome family and friends updated on our Cambodia travels and now I hope to be much more consistent with updates on what God is doing in our lives. We've enjoyed 6 1/2 years of marriage, are honored to serve our church as the Edmond Campus Pastors (www.harvestokc.com), enjoy being outdoors, OSU sports, trying new things, traveling, cooking, shopping and decorating (well, one of us anyway) and spending quality time with those we love. We are so very grateful for the opportunities and life God has given us.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Our final day


Friday, Aug. 8
Friday morning we left early to drive back to Phnom Penh for a free day to see the city and shop at the market. As you can tell, we did not have any downtime. We ate lunch at an American restaurant and then headed for the market. It was a fun day and we all shopped until we dropped. Our team was so amazing and it was great to all be together. We finished the day with a nice dinner at a real Cambodian restaurant where you sit on the floor. It was actually our 2nd time to eat there and it was so fun and the food was good! We all de-briefed about our time and it was a real encouraging and uplifting time.
The next morning we left for the airport at 7 a.m. and began our 44 hour journey home. God was with us and we did not have any travel delays or problems. And, we were even able to sleep several hours on the long 12 hour flight which helped pass the time. We had a blessed trip and thank you, all of our dear family & friends for your support, encouragement and prayers. You made a real difference. Thank you!!

The Princess Party


Thursday, Aug. 7
The much anticipated Princess Party occurred the last night we were with the girls. We arrived back from Siem Riep and had a few minutes to freshen up before dinner and the party. The girls joined us at our hotel restaurant for a nice dinner where we ordered them delacies to eat (the full fish with the head and eyeballs). Meanwhile a few of us from the team went to the Hagar house to decorate and get ready for the party happening right after dinner. We went all out with balloons, streamers, a full 8" Disney scene on the wall and different stations: hair, nails, make-up, and arts & crafts. Our team arrived 1st while the girls enjoyed ice cream at the restaurant. We all waited on the porch with glow sticks, balloons, tiaras and play earrings to welcome them with cheers and open arms when they arrived. When the bus pulled up with the girls inside, the saw us jumping and cheering for them. They literally sprinted off the bus running into our arms. It was such an incredible sight and so much fun! Once inside all the girls and house mothers were running, cheering, jumping and hugging with excitement. With Kimmy's help, our incredible translator, we told the girls about all the activities just for them and that we are having the best Princess Party ever. The room erupted in cheers and we all partnered with 2-3 girls and starting taking them through the stations. One of the neat things about that night was how the house mothers and those adults associated with Hagar were having just as much fun as the girls. They were so happy and joyful. The party concluded with Pastor David telling the story of Esther and explaining about having a relationship with Jesus. Four girls raised their hands to accept Jesus. Then the girls wanted to pray for us and it was incredibly moving.
Finally, we had to say good-bye. There were lots of tears by all of us and the girls clung to us tightly. God did amazing things in us and in them and we will never be the same.

Siem Riep & the ancient Angkor Wat temple


Thursday, Aug. 7
Angkor Wat is considered the 10th wonder of the world. It was built in 700 A.D. as a Hindu temple and was later a Buddhist temple. Although it's significance is meaningless, it is incredible in the size, architecture and intricate carvings in the stone. We all enjoyed walking around and most of us (Americans and Cambodians) had never seen it before. Despite the extreme humidity on this day, it was great being with my little "sisters" from Hagar. Each of us had two girls on each arm wanting to hold our hands. It was great. For lunch the girls wanted traditional food, so we dropped them off at a roadside cafe and the Harvest team ate lunch at a local pizza restaurant (with air conditioning) which is obviously there for tourists like ourselves. Siem Riep is a tourist town, so we had some luxuries we didn't have in the provinces (like pizza).
After lunch we headed back to the Hagar house, about a 3 hour drive. That evening we were throwing a huge Princess Party for the girls.

Trip to Siem Riep & the Cultural Village


Andy and I at the Cultural Village. The scenery was very pretty.


Wednesday, Aug. 6
We loaded up and drove 1st thing to Siem Riep which was about a 3 hour drive. The purpose of this overnight trip was to provide a holiday opportunity for the girls at Hagar. We were honored to treat the girls and house mothers to this mini vacation and they were very appreciative. On our way we stopped at a roadside cafe for breakfast. I wish I had a picture because I can't possibly describe it. Let's just say it was an interesting cultural experience. The girls ate a hearty breakfast and a few of us brave Americans had a few bites of omelet, rice or bread.
Once we arrived in Siem Riep we took the girls to the Cultural Village, which is a park with a variety of outdoor performances highlighting the different cultural beliefs and people groups in Cambodia. It was very educational and interesting. The girls really enjoyed it. At the end of the day it confirmed in me the void we all have as humans for something bigger - for Jesus. Watching these performances and the effort being put in to worshipping false gods really made my heart break for those who haven't heard about Jesus, for those people who truly worship gods of fire, water, etc. As Americans and Christians, it's hard to wrap our minds around that fact but it's true because I've met those people. Although this is "deep thinking" on my part, the mood of the day was fun and playful with the girls.
For dinner we went to a nice restaurant where there were more traditional dances being performed while we ate. Then it was time for bed as we were all exhausted.

Hope Center in Kampong Thom and meeting the girls at Hagar


Andy and Shane preparing the bananas to feed the kids

This baby is adorable and makes me so sad to know what obstacles she is facing as she grows up. I met her in the village where we fed the children.

One of the precious girls praising God

Pastor Sokahn and Esther (left) and all the kids who live at the Hope Center

Tuesday, Aug. 5
We were up bright and early to drive 2 1/2 hours to Kampong Thom to visit Pastor Sokahn and his wife, Esther and the Hope Center. Sokahn took us with him to a village a few miles outside of town to participate in a feeding program the church does 4 days a week. In this particular village there are about 100 children. Total, the church feeds about 400 children 4 days a week in villages near Kampong Thom. These are the only meals these children eat. The faces of these children will be in my mind forever. They have such precious faces and are hungry, filthy and hopeless. Thank God for Sokahn who shares the love of Jesus with these children by feeding them, telling them about Jesus, teaching them songs (which they performed for us), and teaching them hygiene (the children have to wash their hands before they can eat). Pastor Sokahn is a pastor, runs the Hope Center our church built last year and runs this feeding program among many other things. All of this is done by a 27-year-old man who was abandoned by his parents at age 12. It is truly remarkable and heroic.
We also got to spend some time with the children at the Hope Center and give them backpacks with school supplies and other gifts. It was really great to also honor Pastor Sokahn, Esther and their baby Christina Joy with a gift basket and offering. Can I just say that Cambodian babies are the cutest little things ever!
Then we drove to meet Sue & Sue from Hagar for an orientation about the next 3 days we would spend with the girls rescued from the sex trade. Sue & Sue oversee the children's programs at Hagar, which has several homes in Cambodia. Hagar is an aftercare program for girls who have been sexually abused, primarily in the child sex industry. They provide housing, schooling, medical care, intensive counseling, court preparation (as many cases go to trial both in Cambodia and other countries including the US) and biblical teaching. These women have give their lives and are committed to restoring and offering hope to girls affected by the horror of sex slavery.
Thankfully Sue & Sue (from New Zealand) speak English, so we were able to communicate very well with them.
Afterward, we met the girls at the Hagar House where they performed a traditional Khmer dance for us. It was beautiful and seeing their faces made it so hard to imagine the terror they've been through in their short lives. Their ages are 3 - 14. Next, we took them shopping for a new outfit and finished the evening doing crafts with them. Because of our trip last year we were able to come very prepared with crafts and supplies to give them a chance to do things they don't have the opportunity to do in Cambodia.
* To protect the girls, unfortunately I cannot post any pictures of them.

Pastor Hong's


The children have grown so much in the last year


The inside when we left Aug. 2007

The completed inside.

The garden they planted to grow their own food.

Andy went right to work.

Pastor Hong was thrilled to receive the new tools Andy brought for him.

Hugging Vadi, Pastor Hong's wife. Such a precious lady!


Monday, Aug. 4
Today we drove from Phnom Penh to Kampong Cham (about 2 1/2 hours) to visit Pastor Hong and the Hope Center that our church built last year. Andy and I were anticipating this visit very much. We arrived before lunch to our hotel where we stayed last year. Pastor Hong was there waiting for us and was so excited to see us. I kept trying to give him a big hug, but he kept doing the traditional bow. It was funny. After a quick lunch, we headed to the orphanage to work and visit the children. When we walked around the corner and saw what has been done to the orphanage since we left last year, it brought us to tears. I can't wait to show you pictures! We were so overwhelmed and proud to see the progression of the home.
We brought all kinds of crafts, and girly stuff for the girls and soccer balls for the boys. We also gave them all backpacks with school supplies. The guys worked with a few Cambodian workers already building a frame to create some shade where the children play. As Pastor Hong said, "there isn't enough shadow." It's so funny how things translate. On top of the frame we put up a tarp-like material to cover the play areas for the children. Meanwhile the girls worked on a two beautification projects - one was a walkway in between Pastor Hong's house and the children's home. The other was cleaning out a large flower bed that was full of debris and trash. We took Pastor Hong and Vadi (his wife) to the plant nursery to purchase some new plants for them to fill the flower bed. We bought about $500 in US worth of plants for $50. It was a full day of work and at the end, it all looked amazing. Pastor Hong thanked us for our creativity and said we come up with ideas he would never even think of. It's so fulfilling to be able to help people. The Hong's joined us for dinner and we honored them with a gift basket and offering to continue the amazing work that they're doing.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

We're home

We made it home this afternoon around 2 p.m. after almost 48 hours of travel. Thankfully, it wasn't too bad, just a lot of sitting! I will add a blog highlighting the last week when I was without Internet access. We're so happy to be home. It was a great trip - life changing and unforgettable. For now, our eye lids are shutting so good night! ;)

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Day 4 - Last day in Phnom Penh


Riding off into the sunset...

Brave Andy on a moto with Pisit, the New Life worship pastor. We were on our way to his house for a cell group meeting.

My New Life friends that I LOVE! Kimmy, Soar and Seiha.

Today we spent our Sunday with our "family" at New Life Fellowship. We were up bright and early and at church for their 7 a.m. service and stayed for the 10 a.m. service as well. Before I go any further, let me tell you that they start things waaayyy to early around here, but that's just the way they do it - everyone starts working at first light. Pastor David preached and it was very encouraging both for the team and for the church. There was a great response and it is just so incredible to worship God with our Khmer family. After the morning services we ate lunch with Pastor Jesse, his wife Soar and daughter Jessica and Pisit and Seiha. I have made some dear friends. Jesse is the Senior Pastor at New Life and Pisit is the worship pastor. They are such dear people and I got to know their wonderful wives and wish I could bring them home with me. They speak English so I was able to really get to know them and absolutely love them. Then we headed right to the cell groups in people's homes and church. Andy, Pastor David and I went to Pisit and Seiha's flat. It took me back to OSU/Chi Alpha days when we had cell groups every week. The Holy Spirit is the same everywhere and it was so neat to see how this small group of Cambodian people act just like we do - joking around and laughing with one another. And then to see them just praise God and share openly with one another. It was awesome. Oh, and we rode a tuk tuk to Pisit and Seiha's (a tuk tuk is a motor bike pulling a carriage-like thing on the back - it's quite an experience). We've actually rode them several times. Yes, we're brave or we're crazy - one or the other. We are in very safe hands with our hosts at New Life. They say it's safe and wouldn't lead us astray -that's just how they do things here. Thankfully we're in a "carriage" and not just on a motor bike. Motor bikes are everywhere!! And, the women ride side-saddle . It's really unbelievable.
After cell groups, we had a little experience. One of our girls had a bit of an emergency with her tongue. Don't laugh. It was inflammed to the point she couldn't speak. So, we hopped in a tuk tuk with a New Life Host and headed for the best medical clinic in town. $150 later, she is fine after some anti-biotic shots. It sounds scary, but really God was looking out for us and it was safe. It was an experience for sure!! And, one to laugh about now.
Tomorrow we're heading for Kampong Cham to build a playground at Pastor Hong's orphanage. Tuesday we'll go to Kampong Thom and visit our 2nd orphange and then we'll end up at the Hagar House to be with the girls for 3 days. It's going to be full, but very rewarding and we're so excited. Off to finish packing and to get a really good night of sleep before a week in the provinces - not so sure what our conditions will be like there. :) That's the fun of it.

Love to all! Thanks for your prayers. We love you so much!

Saturday, August 2, 2008

Cambodia Day 2

I had so much fun with this gal trying to teach her English.
Professor Morris leading English class. He is such a great teacher and speaker.




This blog was written by Pastor David and says it all so eloquently:

Our second day in Phnom Pehn, has begun with a bang. Before I share about today, I want to recap yesterday. One thing I love about working with teams is to watch different team members grow and develop, and stretch themselves beyond their comfort zones. The great thing about harvest teams though, is they all seem to be consummate pro’s when it comes to relationship. They all act as if they have never met a stranger. It is so easy to love harvest people, but I wish everyone had the opportunity to see how our culture truly translates everywhere we go.
We believe in servant leadership, and it shows when we work in these type of settings. We believe that relationship with Christ and relationship with other believers and even those who do not know Christ yet, are very important. This team of Andrew, Allison, Amy, Kelsi, Shane, Jennifer, Jenna, Nicoli, Terry, Travis, Jordan, Kerri, Kelly R., Kelly K, Hannah, and Autumn simply put, are a collection of superstars. They are flexible, inspiring, compassionate and caring people. I respect each of them deeply; I also respect those responsible for sending them. Family, friends, loved ones and people inspired about changing the world. You would be so proud if you could see them in action.
Yesterday, we connected with our friends at new life church and jumped right in to ministry. We Toured their facility, and ministry offices and began to interact with students, with teachers, with church staff and with people just wanting to learn English. Different ones of the team had the opportunity to use their gifts and skills to help in areas that were a good fit. Travis, you guessed it, is doing his best to get all the “IT” kinks out of their system; yes it’s an issue everywhere. Jenna was able to help in the admin offices of the “at risk kids dept.” With her knowledge she was able to do some things in 30 minutes that will literally save them 100’s of hours over the long haul. Shane had the wonderful opportunity of traveling into the village with a couple of pastors from “New Life.” A couple of years ago they planted a church in this village. The village is with all handicap people. They were a part of the Khmer Rouge and in the process of the government telling them to lay down their arms, and giving them amnesty, they became outcast, banded together and live in this village. New life has gone there and started a church and now has a great work there. Shane was able to go, and do a leadership session with the leaders and then a church service in the afternoon. His testimony of the stories when he returned had us all in tears, as he had an awakening and God used him to touch others. Terry and Nicoli went to one of the pastor’s homes and did some work, that was needed, they were having issues with flooding and we were able to solve a major problem for them with minor difficulty and little money. It is amazing how far, our knowledge, our money, and our skill sets will go in this culture. We are able to help them and then educate them on how to continue that new skill. They were having flooding issues around their septic tank, with a bit of money and effort Andrew, Nicoli, and Terry were able to get a sump pump, hose, and solve their problem. Then educate them on things that need to be done to keep the problem from recurring. They also trimmed back some trees, “had to create their tools.” But did a great job.
Shane, Kelsi, and Jenna, set in a “youth party” meeting which is their major outreach and weekly bridge from the English classes to the church. They prepared for our team to do it, which is right down their ally and will be a lot of fun.
The rest of the team and many of the people already mentioned were a part of the “joy club” which is basically like a weekly vbs for street kids. They literally wash their feet clean up cuts, play with the kids, and make sure they are cared for with certain supplies and ministered to with music and teaching. No worries, they took every sanitary precaution, realizing, many of these kids are hiv positive, or have some type of physical problem.
We wrapped up the day with dinner with Pastor Jesse and Soar, and their Baby Girl Jessica. He spoke to us about the value of what we are doing, it was a great moment. We ate lunch and had a great cultural experience with Pastor Pisit and his wife Sei ha.
Then we had a team meeting to prepare for today. We are teaching English classes all day long. This is a great contribution to society and is also the major outreach to getting people into a relationship with Christ and the church. Our team put together a dynamic, interactive program, that develops basic English language skills and tons of great relationship, and then we invite them to come to the youth party with us Saturday night, this process is truly genius.
We will eat lunch with all the regular English teachers and develop relationship with them, as well as hear their testimonies and how they came to faith. Many of which were saved through this process. We are having the time of our lives, and the people of Cambodia are getting deeply engrained in our hearts. It is so incredible to see the faith of the Christians of this country and their dedication.
As the day continues, we will continue to teach English, some of the team will run for supplies for another ministry opportunity, and a small team of four will be going with the outreach team to minister to children in the slums. Tonight we will eat at the dorms, 30 men, and 30 women. This is a place they allow people to live, if they commit to come to church. Many of these people are orphans, once they reach the age of 18 they are made to leave the orphanage, so they literally have no place to go, and need help learning how to take care of themselves etc. So this is a ministry they have begun. We are having dinner with them tonight to fellowship and witness, and invite them to the “youth party.”
Then we start again tomorrow. I will be introducing guest bloggers to write some experiences they’ve had to give you a personal look at the affect of being in this atmosphere.
Again, let me say thanks for helping us, to help them.
David.